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Aging and Thinning Skin

Is your skin becoming thinner as you age? Thin skin is a natural part of getting older, alongside wrinkles, less skin elasticity, and skin that is dry or easily damaged. While thinning skin is not reversible, there is help for thinning skin!
  • Moisturize your skin! It can make skin more flexible and less likely to break.
  • Drinking enough water helps keep the skin hydrated. Dry skin can be irritated or damaged more easily and is often less flexible.
  • Avoid anything that makes your skin red or sore. Protect yourself from the sun! You will burn more easily as your skin ages. Also, take care to avoid harsh chemicals that could damage your skin.
  • Wear long sleeves, gloves, and long skirts or trousers to help avoid bruises or tears.
  • Eat a balanced diet to help support overall health. Include plenty of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, and proteins. Vitamin E, found in foods such as almonds and avocados, can also support skin health. The fats in these foods may help to keep the skin supple.
  • Using creams that contain vitamin A, also known as retinol or retinoids, may help to prevent skin from thinning further. Your doctor can prescribe this medication or there are some over the counter products you can use. As with any medication, make sure you follow the instructions and talk to your doctor if you experience problems.
There is usually no need to see a doctor for thin skin that is caused by aging and is not presenting any health problems. If you find you are bruising or damaging your skin often, you may wish to seek medical advice.
Since specific treatment is not available for thin skin, prevention is the best option. Protecting your skin from sunlight and keeping your skin hydrated may help prevent further thinning of the skin.
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Hearing loss – you are not alone!

Are you experiencing some of these signs of hearing loss? At age 65, one in three people have hearing loss!

  • Sounds are loud but not clear, people may seem to be mumbling or talking too quickly.
  • You have trouble hearing when there is noise around you, like in a restaurant.
  • People you live with tell you the television is “too loud” or that you speak too loudly or softly.
  • You avoid social situations. They make you anxious or tired because you cannot understand.
  • Others notice you seem confused, depressed or your personality has changed. Because hearing loss is invisible, we notice effects but don’t always think that hearing loss could be the cause.

If you suspect hearing loss, what should you do? First, see your family physician to check for wax in ear canals, infection or some other treatable condition.  If that is not successful, arrange for a hearing test with an audiologist.

Audiologists, while not medical doctors, have a specialized graduate degree and training to evaluate hearing loss, fit hearing aids and help individuals with hearing loss.

If you need a hearing aid, do your research. Hearing aids can be a difficult product to buy and they can be expensive. It may take some time to be properly fitted and comfortable with a device so be patient.

We’ve put together some reputable resources for you about hearing loss.

AARP’s Hearing Center has a range of information, including a free telephone hearing test for AARP members and tips on how to pick the best hearing device for you. https://www.aarp.org/health/conditions-treatments/hearing-resource-center/

Consumer Reports Hearing Aid Buying Guide https://www.consumerreports.org/cro/hearing-aids/buying-guide/index.htm

The Hearing Loss Association of America, an organization representing people with hearing loss. http://www.hearingloss.org/content/understanding-hearing-loss

Tomato in the garden

Legacy of Love

Diane’s mother has gone on. She was not wealthy. All she owned was a 10.6 cubic foot chest freezer, which she had cared for meticulously. A few weeks after her mother’s passing, Diane was cleaning the freezer and found, carefully tucked inside a collection of freezer bags, a collection of short stories written by her mother.

About her daughter.

Diane takes those stories to bed with her every night. She reads them every night and every night, for just a little while, she has her mom back.


Mary Ruth was handed a telephone and told she could call her father and tell him anything she wanted him to know.

“Hi, Dad. I want you to know that I still remember all those rainy, thundery nights you and Mom let me sleep in your bed. I remember curling up into your arms and feeling like all the thunder in the world could never hurt me. I remember all the times growing up when things didn’t go right in my life, you were always there to hold me in your arms and make me feel like the world couldn’t hurt me anymore. I want you to know that, Dad. I miss you. I love you. Bye, bye.”

Mary Ruth’s father had passed away in an assisted living home a year ago.


Toby grew tomatoes in his backyard. Lots of them. More than one man could ever eat. But he didn’t grow them for just one man.

Every year, when he picked those tomatoes, he bagged them and, in the early, early hours of the day when no one was stirring, Toby was stirring, walking door-to-door, leaving a bag of tomatoes on doorstep after doorstep around his neighborhood. The morning after Toby died, his son stepped onto his father’s front porch and there, on that porch, were dozens of tomatoes – one from each person, each family that had ever woken up to a bag of Toby’s tomatoes.


You can leave a house behind. It’ll be sold and the kids will thank you. You can leave a bank account behind. The money will be divided and the kids will thank you. You can leave an insurance policy; stocks, bonds, jewelry, antiques and the kids will thank you.

But if you leave your love behind, they will treasure you.

We don’t say it enough and too many times when we do say it, it’s too late. Tell everyone you love that you love them. Show everyone you love that you love them.

Write them a story.

Give them a call.

Grow them a tomato.

William McDonald
Author at www.oldfriendsendlesslove.com

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Community Spotlight: Country Charm

Let the allure of country living and appeal of big-city services lead to Country Charm, an Independent Living and Assisted Living community in Greenwood, Indiana. Our goal is to enrich the lives of our residents by providing an environment that is physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally stimulating. From thoughtfully designed floor plans to world-class service and myriad recreational and social opportunities, residents may just find that we have thought of everything. Our studio and one-bedroom apartment homes boast plenty of comforts including wall-to-wall carpet, mini blinds and cable TV access as well as features such as emergency call buttons, smoke alarms and sprinkler systems to provide a sense of safety. Covered porches and a stocked lake with gazebo complement our beautifully landscaped community, which also sports a paved walking path to help keep residents active and fit. We feature a full calendar of activities and social programs that offer our residents a rewarding, enriching lifestyle with weekly bowling, shopping and lunch outings.  Country Charm’s ideal location provides access to downtown Indianapolis in less than 30 minutes with plenty of local and national restaurants and stores along the way. Caring and professional staff members are on call 24/7 in case of an emergency, and residents can make an appointment to see a doctor, podiatrist and psychologist who visits the community on a regular basis. Community South and Franciscan St. Francis Health hospitals are ready to serve residents anytime.